http://articles.philly.com/1991-06-21/news/25789100_1_plants-trees-ceremony-letter
Six months have passed and the envelope remains unopened, resting against another envelope that is still sealed. Both will stay that way for at least 19 more days, maybe forever.
The mother of Army Specialist Jimmy James has been unable to look at the contents of both envelopes since they were hand-delivered by a government employee only days after her son died Dec. 21 in a transport vehicle accident in Saudi Arabia as part of Operation Desert Shield.
One letter was written by Jimmy James, the other by his mother, Maria James.
"July 9 is his (23d) birthday. Maybe I'll open it (his letter) then," said James, a single mother from Willingboro now left with one son.
She and her 15-year-old son, Terry, were joined by about 65 people yesterday at Willingboro's Mill Creek Park to remember Jimmy James and plant three mature elm trees in his memory. The planting, which also included a grove of 100 elm seedlings, was part of the Union Carbide Corp.'s "Rooting for America" promotion, a two-year-old program that plants trees for various occasions.
The ceremony was also attended by Gabrielle James, the soldier's 22-year- old German wife. They had been married only six months when he died.
"I can go there (the park) and know there is part of my son there," said Maria James, stressing that the ceremony was appropriate because it did not exploit her son's death and ensured a living memorial for friends in Willingboro's Hispanic community. The family has lived in the township since 1968.
She described her son as a person of extremes, his shyness concealing an unyielding determination to act on his convictions. She said he always dreamed of becoming a soldier, and as a teenager found respite in sketching and won awards for his work.
At 17, he gave up the long hair, earring and heavy metal music for fatigues and a crew cut. She respected his convictions even though she didn't always agree with them.
"I knew he was a child, but he didn't always think like one," she said of her son's teenage years. "I sometimes wonder if he wasn't a man inside a little boy's uniform."
Gov. Florio, the keynote speaker at yesterday's ceremony, said Jimmy James was a hero whose death "brought home the true cost of the liberty we must sometimes defend."
Maria James did not see her son for three years until the Jan. 2 viewing in Ohringen, near Stuttgart. During that period he was nicknamed "Spider" by the 51st Chemical Company because of his quiet persistence.
He called her twice a week during those years and frequently wrote letters.
"I think the hardest part for us was when the soldiers started coming home and we knew Jimmy wouldn't be one of them," she said. "You cry till you can't cry no more. The pain is so bad you can't breathe."
She said he seemed to know that he would die.
In his letters from Germany, he made his family promise to support each other if he should die.
Several days before the accident, she dreamed he was dead. "It was like Jimmy knew, and I knew. I knew my son wasn't going to come home. I don't know why," she said.
"To me he was an angel, an angel of God," said Maria James. "He was an American and he was my son."
Six months have passed and the envelope remains unopened, resting against another envelope that is still sealed. Both will stay that way for at least 19 more days, maybe forever.
The mother of Army Specialist Jimmy James has been unable to look at the contents of both envelopes since they were hand-delivered by a government employee only days after her son died Dec. 21 in a transport vehicle accident in Saudi Arabia as part of Operation Desert Shield.
One letter was written by Jimmy James, the other by his mother, Maria James.
"July 9 is his (23d) birthday. Maybe I'll open it (his letter) then," said James, a single mother from Willingboro now left with one son.
She and her 15-year-old son, Terry, were joined by about 65 people yesterday at Willingboro's Mill Creek Park to remember Jimmy James and plant three mature elm trees in his memory. The planting, which also included a grove of 100 elm seedlings, was part of the Union Carbide Corp.'s "Rooting for America" promotion, a two-year-old program that plants trees for various occasions.
The ceremony was also attended by Gabrielle James, the soldier's 22-year- old German wife. They had been married only six months when he died.
"I can go there (the park) and know there is part of my son there," said Maria James, stressing that the ceremony was appropriate because it did not exploit her son's death and ensured a living memorial for friends in Willingboro's Hispanic community. The family has lived in the township since 1968.
She described her son as a person of extremes, his shyness concealing an unyielding determination to act on his convictions. She said he always dreamed of becoming a soldier, and as a teenager found respite in sketching and won awards for his work.
At 17, he gave up the long hair, earring and heavy metal music for fatigues and a crew cut. She respected his convictions even though she didn't always agree with them.
"I knew he was a child, but he didn't always think like one," she said of her son's teenage years. "I sometimes wonder if he wasn't a man inside a little boy's uniform."
Gov. Florio, the keynote speaker at yesterday's ceremony, said Jimmy James was a hero whose death "brought home the true cost of the liberty we must sometimes defend."
Maria James did not see her son for three years until the Jan. 2 viewing in Ohringen, near Stuttgart. During that period he was nicknamed "Spider" by the 51st Chemical Company because of his quiet persistence.
He called her twice a week during those years and frequently wrote letters.
"I think the hardest part for us was when the soldiers started coming home and we knew Jimmy wouldn't be one of them," she said. "You cry till you can't cry no more. The pain is so bad you can't breathe."
She said he seemed to know that he would die.
In his letters from Germany, he made his family promise to support each other if he should die.
Several days before the accident, she dreamed he was dead. "It was like Jimmy knew, and I knew. I knew my son wasn't going to come home. I don't know why," she said.
"To me he was an angel, an angel of God," said Maria James. "He was an American and he was my son."