Captain Benjamin W. Sammis, USMC Hometown: West Long Branch NJ/Rehobeth, Mass. Age: 29 years old Died: April 5, 2003 in Operation Iraqi Freedom. Unit: Marine Light Attack Helicopter Squadron 267, Marine Aircraft Group 39, 3rd Marine Aircraft Wing, Camp Pendleton; Calif.
EATONTOWN — With a Marine color guard, the playing of "The Star-Spangled Banner" by the student band, and a handful of speeches, a young dogwood tree and monument were dedicated at Woodmere School to all those who have died in "the battle for Iraqi freedom." The ceremony, held Monday under the first sun to shine on the Shore in some time, was aimed at all who made "the ultimate sacrifice," but most of the speakers focused on two servicemen with ties to the Eatontown school district who were killed in Iraq. They are Marine Capt. Benjamin W. Sammis, 29, a pilot, who was killed with another pilot April 5 in a helicopter crash during a combat mission 30 miles southeast of Baghdad, and Army Spc. Kyle Griffin, 20, who died May 30 in a truck accident on a highway in Iraq.
Sammis was the husband of Stacey Sammis, whose mother, Joyce Dancisin, is a third-grade teacher at the Woodmere School. Griffin was the nephew of Rosemarie Boratto, a secretary at the Memorial School. Stacey Sammis speaks at a ceremony at the Woodmere Elementary School, Eatontown, honoring those who lost their lives in Operation Iraqi Freedom.Stacey Sammis and her husband lived in Vista, Calif. She is returning to the Shore now and attended the dedication with her mother and father, Michael Dancisin, longtime West Long Branch residents who now live in Avon, and her sister, Amy.
Joseph Miller, exalted ruler of Eatontown Elks Lodge 2402, which arranged the memorial, said before the ceremony that the lodge has a lot of former military men in it and wanted to do something in memory of all who have died in Iraq. To those gathered on the lawn by the tree for the formalities, including all the third-graders, he said, "We’re here today to honor all those in the military who made the ultimate sacrifice while protecting us at home." Barbara Struble, principal of the Woodmere School, said she had met Sammis and he truly was a model for the youth of today to emulate. "He had so much to give to the country and he did — he gave it all," she said.
"To Ben and Kyle, we owe you our great appreciation," she said. "You gave us liberty, which is so dear to our hearts." Robert J. Soprano, superintendent of the Eatontown schools, said it was a sad day because whenever someone is lost on the battlefield, it makes not only the family but also the whole country sad. However, it also was a proud day for the families, he said. Soprano recalled how Winston Churchill had said courage was the most important virtue. Without it, he said, none of the other virtues would follow. Marine Lt. Col. James Sole, of Red Bank, said that both Sammis and Griffin died doing what they loved and that establishing the memorial sends the clear signal that those present shared their love of this country. "Patriotism is not the fear of something. It’s the love of something," he said.
Mayor Gerald J. Tarantolo recalled how more than 600,000 men and women had given their lives in the service of their country over the years. He said planting the tree serves as a lasting reminder of Sammis and Griffin and is a way to try to say thank you to them and provide solace for their families. "The cost of freedom comes with a high price tag," he said. "It is not free." Stacey Sammis, Joyce Dancisin and Boratto joined with the officials in lifting the cover from the monument laid in the ground in front of the tree, which reads: "In memory of those who made the ultimate sacrifice during the battle for Iraqi freedom. Dedicated June 2003. Eatontown Elks #2402." Stacey Sammis, a graduate of Shore Regional High School, then thanked everyone for what they have done for her family and, with her voice breaking, read a note that her 8-year-old neighbor whom her husband had befriended had written about him. "Whenever I saw him, he was smiling," the note said in part. "My favorite memory was when he showed me his night vision goggles." Putting down the note, she said, "He touched the lives of so many — even the young." Capt. Sammis was killed when his helicopter crashed into a tower, according to Darlene Miller, who helped the Elks in arranging the dedication. She said it was not known yet whether the crash was caused by equipment failure or by enemy fire.
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Friends, family and fellow service members gathered for the memorial dedication of fallen Marines Capt. Ben Sammis and Capt. Travis Ford at Marine Corps Air Station Miramar, Calif., Jan. 21. Sammis and Ford, helicopter pilots with Marine Light Attack Helicopter Squadron 267, were killed during Operation Iraqi Freedom when their AH-1W Super Cobra helicopter crashed near Ali Aziziyal, Iraq, April 5, 2003. (Photo by Dallas Poore)